Category Archives: PE on Medium

America was not Founded on Christianity: The History that Never Happened

Where our nationalist spirit came from: It’s no secret that North America is rooted in an independent nationalist pride. Escaping the rule of Great Britain and obtaining complete independence in 1776 will always give Americans an excuse to be proud. But our journey to the civilized country we are today is also embedded in slavery, the…

The worst things to say in an apology

Saying “I’m sorry” is hard enough. Don’t butcher it by saying any of these things: 1 “I’m sorry you feel that way.” This blames the other person for…having feelings? It’s not addressing your own actions but blaming someone for how they responded to your actions. 2 “I’m sorry I caused…x, y, z” This phrase creates one degree of separation…

3 signs you have dialogue fatigue

3 signs you have dialogue fatigue Before the pandemic, you might have enjoyed a long conversation on the back porch. Exchanging ideas or attempting to convince someone of your perspective. It was riveting, energizing. But after the pandemic, after years of isolation and limited practice in conversation, these heated discussions are hard work. It’s like getting…

I use to be a Pastor, Now I Study Religion. How I Learned to Talk to Aggressive People

How I Learned to Talk to Aggressive People Tips from a researcher who studies American religion As someone who researches American religion, I find myself in impassioned conversations quite often. Religion is a beautiful element that creates a sense of purpose and belonging as well as a sense of guidance and explanation for the unexplainable pains…